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Sunday, February 08, 2009
Mailbag Q & A: I want to interview my parents. Does that mean I think they’re at death’s door?

"Mom? Dad? I'd like to visit you and record stories of our family history. I want to ask you questions about your experiences. I want to hear your memories."
Does that statement sound like the person is saying "I know you're getting older and I'm afraid you're going to die really soon" or does it sound like "I want to know what you know."?
Reader John Beatty wrote me and asked this question:
I bought an Edirol R09 audio recorder 2 years ago with the intent of recording some family history when I visit my parents back in Michigan. You wouldn't believe the grief one of my friends gave me about the project! I've been advised that recording your parents is tantamount to telling your aging parents that you fear they're about to die so you want to get everything on tape before they kick the bucket. Do you have any advice for folks like me who want to learn more family history but don't want to seem like a circling vulture?
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